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    song creator, inspirational writer/speaker, good food cooker, lipstick wearer… a girl from the projects who decided NOT to settle. I'm a believer- in God, in dreams, in love, and in hustle with heart. find out more about me here.















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    3 Ways To Immediately Get Your Life Together 

    Getting your life together is the ultimate act of self-care.

    love yourself.
    be kind to yourself.
    but also hold yourself accountable to the level up.

    Here are 3 ways to immediately get your life together:

    1. Do a honest assessment of where you are in every area of your life. Are you the woman (or man) you want to be? Are you moving in the direction of your goals? 

    2. Edit your life. Once the assessment is made, identify habits, people, and overall actions that need an edit. What do you need to do differently? What do you need to remove from your life? 

    3. Make the commitment. Now that you know where you are, and what you need to do, commit to doing something about it- immediately.  Create a list of actions you can take, right now, to get your life together. 

    At some point you just gotta decide to step your entire life up. Start with these 3 steps.


    If You're Tired Of The Same Old Thing...

    you will not get to where you want to where you want to be,

    standing in the same place,

    surrounded by the same people,

    having the same conversation.

    if you want something different,

    you gotta do something different.

    be done with the same old, same old...

    do something different.


    20 Things I Mean When I Say Don’t Settle

    1. don’t live with less when you want more.
    2. don’t apologize for wanting more.
    3. don’t shrink to make others feels comfortable.
    4. don’t live by the expectations of others.
    5. don’t make other people’s opinions more valuable than your own.
    6. don’t try to fit in.
    7. don’t limit yourself by comparing your life to comparing else’s.
    8. don’t lose your peace.
    9. don’t sacrifice your purpose.
    10. don’t let your current circumstances determine your future.
    11. don’t give up.
    12. don’t stay when you want to leave.
    13. don’t leave when you want to stay.
    14. don’t let your age limit you.
    15. don’t let you race limit you.
    16. don’t let your gender limit you.
    17. don’t let your past limit you.
    18. don’t let being a wife limit you.
    19. don’t let being a mom limit you.
    20. don’t let being you limit you.

    settling is for suckers.
    don’t be a sucker.

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