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    song creator, inspirational writer/speaker, good food cooker, lipstick wearer… a girl from the projects who decided NOT to settle. I'm a believer- in God, in dreams, in love, and in hustle with heart. find out more about me here.















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    "They" Have No Idea What They're Talking About. But, DJ Khaled and I Do.

    “They” will have you out here thinking you’re not good enough.

    “They” will have you doubting your abilities, questioning your purpose, and comparing your life to someone else’s...

    “They” will lead you to believe that your contribution in this world is insignificant.

    “They” are a trip!

    They don’t pay your bills.
    They don’t add any value to your life.
    And at the end of the day, they don’t have to answer to the calling on your life.

    What they think is irrelevant.

    DJ Khaled got it right. They may not want you to succeed.

    They may not believe in your dopeness.

    They may not understand your genius.

    So, it’s your responsibility to believe in yourself and cultivate your own genius.

    There will be plenty of people who doubt you, don’t be one of them.


    7 Keys To Help You Bounce Backs And Move Forward

    1. Release the past. those could’ve, should’ve, would’ve’s will trap you in your feelings. Staying in your feelings will keep you from moving forward. let it go.

    2. Reject negative thoughts. thinking it’s too late, you have too many flaws, and holding yourself hostage to the mistakes of your past will keep you from seeing the possibilities. Practice thinking better about yourself. Create affirmations, seek therapy, dive into books on mindset.

    3. Figure out what had you stuck in the first place. why did you fail, what made you fall, who hurt you, what are your fears...? Pull that stuff up so you can adress it.

    4. See yourself in the future. Get a clear picture of what you want to happen. Set some goals and make some plans. Have a vision for your life.

    5. Start from scratch. give yourself a clean slate. Trying to pick up where you left off may be an emotional trap. do something fresh.

    6. Build up your network. surround yourself with other forward thinkers, movers, and hustlers. Vibe with the positive energy of positive people.

    7. Don’t settle. Bouncing back can be hard. It’s going to require major changes. You may be really uncomfortable for a minute, but don’t settle for easy, safe, and comfortable.


    Hey, Girl. I See You... Women Who Inspire Other Women Are So Dope. 

    Shout out to the loud-mouthed woman who found her voice and uses it to inspire other women to find theirs. We need you.

    To the independent woman who isn’t afraid to be alone long enough to discover her own identity, measure her true value, and cultivate the kind of genuine self love that won’t get lost when loving someone else... you inspire me.

    To the woman who found her purpose after losing relationships, time, money, and almost  her sanity, remember what you lost is not the best you ever had.

    To the woman who is still trying to find her way, getting tired of trusting process, and unsure of of her purpose here on earth, you are exactly where you need to be to become that girl- who leaps above circumstance and lands on her feet.

    I see all of you.