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    Wednesday
    Oct182017

    Can we chat about your regrets for a second?

     

    I hear you. You’re right.

     
    You would’ve, could’ve, and maybe even should’ve experienced something different.

    If you had done something different...

    But you didn’t.

    You did what you did, and now you’re here... somewhere you really don’t want to be, doing something you really don’t want to do.

    I’m pretty sure they call that regret- which really doesn’t have to exist because you still exist.

    You’re still your living, breathing self- which means your life is not over- which means you have the ability to do what you really want to do- where you want to do it- at anytime.

    I’m pretty sure that’s called not settling- which you have the right to do, at anytime.

    What I’m really trying to say is:

    Stop settling, beloved.

     

    Until Next Time...

     

    P.S. I figured out a way for me to remind you not to settle, every morning, before you leave the house.  It's my Don't Settle Reminder, Mug. Cute, right?  Get yours here.