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    64 Things You Can Do Before The New Year



    1. Start a new position
    2. Get a promotion
    3. Move to a new city, state, or country
    4. Buy a house
    5. Move out on your own
    6. Remodel your home
    7. Organized your life
    8. Find a mate
    9. Get engaged
    10. Get married
    11. Reconnect with the love of your life
    12. Leave a bad relationship
    13. Repair a bad relationship
    14. Mend a broken heart
    15. Finds new friends
    16. Reconnect with an old friend
    17. Forgive
    18. Be forgiven
    19. Find your purpose
    20. Find a hobby
    21. Get inspired + fired up about your life
    22. Inspire others + get them fired up about life
    23. Develop discipline
    24. Find your consistent stride
    25. Get hired as a speaker
    26. Get a weekly radio segment
    27. Get on TV
    28. Write your business plan
    29. Start a business
    30. Hire employees
    31. Submit a proposal
    32. Close a deal
    33. Start a non-profit
    34. Start college enrollment
    35. Start a book
    36. Finish a book you’ve already started
    37. Write a book from start to finish
    38. Get a book deal
    39. Become a best-selling author
    40. Write songs
    41. Get published
    42. Get a #1 record
    43. Get a publishing deal
    44. Get signed
    45. Break a record
    46. Start something you’ve been putting off
    47. Join the gym
    48. Work-out 64 times
    49. Lose weight
    50. Improve your health
    51. Get pregnant
    52. Start the fertilization process
    53. Build up your faith
    54. Discover a loving God
    55. Create a new website
    56. Start a blog
    57. Get featured in a magazine
    58. Get a check in the mail
    59. Take a vacation
    60. Become a good cook
    61. Find a mentor become
    62. Better a parent
    63. Give to someone in need
    64. End the year strong


    I hope this list inspires you to create a list of your own. 

    Just start with the things you said you would do... and do them- one day at a time.

    Need a little push? Join my FREE Love Your Life More Challenge here.



    Until next time, Love...


    "Pursue something you freaking love!

    And the process that it will take you to get it, will be worth it."



    Start With The Next 5 Days... You Just May Love Your Life After All


    If there was a get there quick option, I would have taken it a long time ago.

    If there was a magic makeover your life in an instant button, I would have patented it and made millions years ago.

    If there was a magic weight loss pill, Oprah would have taken it (it’s true---she said so herself!)

    If there was an erase all of your mistakes and start brand new deal out there, I would have brokered it for me and you already. 

    I do, however, have the secret to experiencing what you want the most in life, love, and even business. 

    Are you ready for it?


    Lean in (come closer…)

    Do one thing everyday. 


    Yep! It’s genius.  

    Now, you have 2 options:

    #1. I can send you an invoice for 1 million dollars. 

    #2. You can sign up for my 5 Day Love Your Life More Challenge. It’s FREE! 

    I’ll wait while you weigh your options…


    The thing is: there are enough people trying to convince you that they can teach you how to become a millionaire (when you find someone who actually knows how to do that, send over the info.)

    The truth is: If you figure out what you’re good at, package + position it well, you can make millions (or so I’ve heard.)

    I care about the condition of your heart + the shape your soul is in + the relevance your deepest-biggest-limitless dreams have in your life.

    If you aren’t living a life you freaking love, well... are you really living?

    What if you could wake up to the life of your dreams- or at least intentionally doing what it takes to get closer to your dreams, everyday?

    You can.

    Here’s the formula:

    Do One Thing + Everyday = A Life You Freaking Love.

    It's simple. Find out what you love, focus on what matters, and do what you can to experience more of it.


    Just start with the next 5 days.  You may even make a million dollars (when you do, you’ll DEFINITELY be receiving my invoice.)

    Or, you may just love your relationships, body-image, home, role as a parent, career, or business more than you did five days ago. 

    You may be able to look at your mistakes and see them as lessons and finally be able to forgive yourself. 

    You may see your role as wife + mother as a meaningful contribution to this world--- and wake up more inspired to pursue the family you wish you had when you were growing up.

    You may find the courage to end the toxic relationships that have depleted you of joy over the years.

    You may be inspired to FINALLY pursue your dreams of becoming the next (you fill in the blank.)


    You can have whatever matters to you the most.  Just start by doing one thing everyday.





    Until next time, Love...


    "Pursue something you freaking love!

    And the process that it will take you to get it, will be worth it."


    If You Feel Like You're Doing Too Much, You Probably Are...


    How much of your life is spent on things that don’t matter? 

    Endless banter with friends who aren’t really friends…

    Countless hours working on work that doesn’t work for you…

    Meaningless routines…

    Uninspired action…


    The need to do something can trip you up.

    You should be doing something- but it should be something that matters to you.

    If you feel like you’ve been doing too much, you probably are… 

    Yes, you’ve been busy. You may even be consistent.

    But your heart isn’t in it, so you feel detached.


    Imagine doing the things that really matter to you.

    Imagine actually looking forward to your next task. 

    Or, imagine this: a moment of sheer meaningful bliss- like the moment just after doing something you’ve been meaning to do for years.  Or… the moment just before you step into a new space.  Or… the second you decide to move on (for your own good.)

    Things (and people) that matter to you, move you.  They send a revival your way when you need it. They get you pumped and keep you lifted. 

    The time you spend on things that matter is important.   


    Here’s a question that will help you decide what matters to you the most:

    If you were to wake up tomorrow and your life was exactly as it should be, what would you do, where would you do it, and who would you do it with?

    Answer in as much detail as you can. Start with the moment you wake up until the moment you go to sleep that night. 

    Your vision of how your life should be will be filled with all of the things that matter to you.



    Until next time, Love...


    "Pursue something you freaking love!

    And the process that it will take you to get it, will be worth it."